Last night I was visiting the family that has most recently adopted me for some very pleasant salad, rakia and conversation on a hot summer evening. During our conversation they asked if I could come over sometime to help their granddaughter figure out their new computer. Since they are so ridiculously awesome to me, there is no way I would say no, especially considering that, of the kids on the block, this little girl is “my favorite” (yeah, I play favorites).
So, today after work, as promised I went over to try and help her. She had pretty basic questions, like how to get her music CDs on the computer and work winamp. After that stuff, she asked how she could see kids shows and things on the internet. I immediately hesitated, knowing all the terrible things on the internet that I wouldn’t want this sweet little 7 year old girl to see. But, I figured, might as well try.
We went to what I’ll call the Balkan youtube, Vbox7, and like youtube it advertises popular videos on the main page. The first clip I saw advertised I would deem graphic for a little girl, but it was one of many so I ignored it and asked her what she wanted to look up.
her: “frank li..”
me: “what?”
her: “Franklin!”
Ahh, that green turtle cartoon. I looked it up and immediately we got a page full of totally 7 year old angel friendly videos. We then sat and watched some parts of episodes and I couldn’t help but noticing that, much like most children’s cartoons, Franklin was full of what might be called “positive” or subliminal messages for little kids. Good things, mostly.
For example, when all the characters were riding bikes, they all put on helmets before getting on. Now, whether or not I want to admit it, I can’t deny that these entertaining cartoon characters are way more likely to “lead by example” wearing a helmet than her screwy American neighbor.
So, you know, despite that there are things that I might think it’s bad for her to watch, there are also probably a lot of things that will send good messages. Also, since it’s the internet and it’s instant, she gets to watch what she pleases, when she pleases, commercial free. Therefore she won’t waste time sitting in front of the TV watching something she doesn’t like just to get to the show she wants. In other words, gone are the days where we all watched “Hey Dude” because it aired before “Salute Your Shorts”.
On the other side, it’s also “as much as she wants”. Meaning, beyond the might of parents and siblings there is nothing that can stop her from watching Franklin for 10 hours non-stop, as opposed to once or twice daily half-hour TV installments. There is kind of this addictive side to the internet that I think we all know and it’s a lot easier to stare at the screen you can control and change all day than the one controlled by major networks.
I mean, daytime TV was universally crap as a child so there wasn’t much to pull us away from running around outside and subsequently staying healthy. However, online counterstrike with your friends is basically intense and sweet all the time when you’re 10, so you might not be as inclined to get outside (I hear BG parents complain about how all kids do is sit in front of computers, though I don’t know if it’s worse than we were with console games).
Certainly, there are other pros and cons, but I thought it was interesting that the bad messages and good messages were so apparent. I think kids growing up with internet is a little different than just growing up with TV and video games like me, but at the end of the day, more often than not I see all the kids on my block running around outside, playing games and riding bikes (though not like Franklin). So, you know, it’s not the end of the world, I just hope the good outweighs the bad.
No matter what it’s harder for parents to control though. I mean, when your mom is buying the video game, she can lay down the veto on the blood and guts games. And when networks are geared towards certain age brackets, it’s easy enough for parents to monitor. The internet on the other hand, well, thankfully there is no such censorship and it remains free, which is great, but complicated and trickier for a parent or guardian to watch over.
Anyway, I’m pretty balanced on this issue. Kids with cell phones, on the other hand, I think is outrageous.